feat(nostr): nostr-based account registration and verification

Rebuilt the nostr registration feature cleanly on top of current ergo
mainline (origin/master), dropping the stale ergo reversions that were
entangled in the original squashed branch.

- New irc/nostr package: NIP-04/NIP-17 DMs, NIP-05 resolution, relay
  connect/auth, and identifier helpers.
- Registration/verification via nostr: parseCallback auto-detects nostr
  identifiers (NIP-05, npub, hex pubkey) and dispatches a verification DM.
- Nostr-based cloaked hostnames for accounts (opt-in via
  ip-cloaking.nostr-hostnames), applied at the account-cloak sites.
- Config: accounts.registration.nostr-verification and the
  nostr-hostnames cloak option, with matching default.yaml and help text.
- Adds github.com/nbd-wtf/go-nostr and vendored dependencies.

vendor/github.com/coder/websocket/internal/util/util.go

@@ -0,0 +1,15 @@
+package util
+
+// WriterFunc is used to implement one off io.Writers.
+type WriterFunc func(p []byte) (int, error)
+
+func (f WriterFunc) Write(p []byte) (int, error) {
+	return f(p)
+}
+
+// ReaderFunc is used to implement one off io.Readers.
+type ReaderFunc func(p []byte) (int, error)
+
+func (f ReaderFunc) Read(p []byte) (int, error) {
+	return f(p)
+}